aaaaaaaaand breathe 

It’s been a while since I posted and it’s been a while since I’ve not felt stressed or agitated. 

A lot has happened, good and bad, that has left me drained. 

Two and a half weeks a go I had a jumping clinic with Richard Barton on my mare, Millie. All was going well, but this time of the year she can just change in an instant. She threw in a flying buck but I was so tense already I come straight over her head but lucky landing clean on my feet. I don’t know how but it felt incredible, I should have really made a “V” in the air with my arms like a gymnast. I got back on and we  continued with the canter poles. In the mood, Millie can be near on unstoppable. And I’m only 5ft2″ which isn’t enough to stop spring Millie. Long story short, she put me THROUGH the fence. And I don’t mean a jumping fence, I mean the double panneled perimeter fence around the arena. Looking back I am so lucky the fence was knotted so that it gave way instead of my bones. I’m lucky to just have cuts and bruises but I am so heart broken. 

In the summer, autumn and winter Millie and I make the most amazing team. We’ve had her since she was six, SO from just after she was backed so we knew we were so have a few teething problems but not like this. She’s dangerous, but only in the spring. We’ve made so much progress but now we have to start again, meaning we will be out for half of the competing season. I can’t give up on her. 

As we speak she is five hours away with Richard at “boot camp”. There he can suss her out and work out how to deal with her while his wife, Janet, can check her back and see if she is in any pain. Because everything about this screams “OVARIES” 

But enough of her for now before I get emotional, I will be sure to keep you all updated.

Now for the fun stuff. Just because Millie is out of the picture for shows doesn’t mean I have to be! My mum offered me her handsome but dopey Andalusian, Norman, to try out some dressage this weekend. It was my first time ever in the show ring so we just rode an intro test. We came out with a second place rossette, but just an ok percentage in the low fifties. 

Around four days prior to the show weekend I was told my favourite full livery, Zimmocha, was free for the show date and my boss really threw me in at the deep end entered me into a preliminary test. I was terrified. I had to canter with people watching in the same arena Millie tried to demolish. All I wanted to do was conquer my demons and it paid off. In the form of a blue ribbon and over 60% on my score sheet. Here’s me looking incredibly chuffed just after leaving the ring. -in a free walk on a long rein where appropriate of course – 


Although I am so proud of myself, Norman and Zimmy I am still so gutted I wasn’t doing this with my best friend Millie. Although, outlines and dressage aren’t her thing I’ve always loved the idea of the discipline to keep her brain engaged every once in a while. But I must admit the weekend has made me into quite the dressage diva. 

Sorry this has been a long one, but you did have a lot to catch up on. 

Catch you laters, 

Eloiseđź’•

Why most horse owners HATE spring time

Picture it now – you’re out on a countryside walk with loved ones, surrounded by beautiful rolling hills, blossoms, glorious flowers and adorable little lambs skip along around you. Beautiful right? 

Then suddenly you hear the roaring of horse hooves and screams rapidly close in from behind. You turn. There, hurtling towards you is a sweaty horse with its nostrils and eyes wide with a rider barely holding on. 

That’s right, that’s horse is a grassatic. I call it grassatic because it was one thought that mental disposition was caused by the moon – Luna –  hence the term Lunatic. This is the same kinda thing but with horses and the spring grass. 

Not all horses experience this change. But most people will be sitting reading this and nodding. 

Ok, maybe my example at the beginning was a little extreme but I mean it when I say some horses can be like Jeckle and Hyde with the seasons. To the point where I now believe that when we bought my mare we actually acquired two horses – Millie and spring Millie -. 

It may be the lush green grass or it my even be that out four legged friends aren’t as innocent as we first thought and they know that spring has definitely sprung. If you know what I mean. 

Bucking, rearing, bolting and just being damn right rude are all symptoms Millie and some of her friends show this time of year and with show season right under our noses it can be a stressful time. Just two days ago, Millie bolted with me in the area and all I could do to stop her was to turn her on a circle which spiralled smaller and smaller until Millie was cantering on a fifty pence piece. (Incredible, I know and Hell would freeze over before I got her to do that intentionally) 

It can be scary, so please if your a non horsey person try and understand that your partner/sibling/son/daughter/friend may just want you to stay with them while they ride. You don’t have to do anything just sit and watch and you’ll instantly be a human safety blanket. And don’t even think about saying thinks like “well maybe you shouldn’t ride” or “maybe (s)he blames you” when something goes wrong. 

And if you are horsey and going through this, you’re not alone. It’s nothing to be embarrassed about, it’s natural. It’s spring, most animals are hungry and horny. And there’s not that long left of spring in the grand scheme of things. Just help each other and tell each other stories of your grassatic experiences. It’s helps to know you’re not alone. 

Catch ya laters

Eloiseđź’•

F*ck off, flies! 

The last couple of days have been utterly glorious in Norwich and with my horses living so close to the river the flies are already hovering. 

I’m not 100% comfortable with putting my hooved heathens in fly rugs 24/7, as flies can get caught in the rug and sent them into a frenzy, and manufactured fly sprays are either chemically or expensive. 

So I’ve done the dirty work for you and done my research to bring you some D.I.Y fly sprays! Not ALL of them are totally chemical free but I feel much happier knowing exactly what’s going on my horses skin. 

1) 

5 caps of dettol – from a 500ml size bottle
250 ml of Avon Skin so Soft and fresh (I’ve found this only come in 500ml bottles and this ingredient can be halved if flies aren’t TOO bad) 

2 teaspoons of lavander oil

2 teaspoons of citronella 

2 teaspoons of eucalyptus oil

2 teaspoons of cedar wood oil

2 teaspoons of tea tree oil

2 teaspoons of bog myrtle oil (not essential but highly recommended for maximum mosquito repelling) 

Top up to make 1 litre with either water or cold tea and pop it in an appropriate spray bottle.
Shake well before spraying and throughout spraying because the natural oils will separate from the water very quickly! 

Can be used on people as well as horses and can be used on sensitive areas like the sheath. When using on your horse spray it on twice daily so it’s leaves a dewy mist over his/her coat.
2) 
5-10 drops Peppermint Essential Oil

5-10 drops Tea Tree or Melaleuca Alternifolia Essential Oil

5-10 drops Idaho Tansy Essential Oil

5-10 drops Eucalyptus Essential Oil

5-10 drops Lemongrass Essential Oil

5-10 drops Lavender Essential Oil

Drop each of the oils into a 32 oz spray bottle and mix with water! This spray is refreshing and smells lush! 

3) 

1 cup of apple cider vinegar

1 cup water

20 drops of doTERRA’s essential oil blend Terrashield

4)

leftover and dying geraniums –about 2 cups or 20 drops geranium oil

2 cloves of garlic or garlic granules

2 tablespoons neem oil-human grade

1 cup white vinegar

2 cups water

Blend for about 4 minutes, strain and put in spray bottle. Apply with a sponge around the eyes

This is cheap and easy especially if you have excess to the flowers.

Tips and tricks – especially if you want to make your own recipe 

1) There are two types of citronella oil, a natural, highly concentrated, yummy smelling oil and the highly flammable type used for tiki torches! Personally, I’d suggest using the first one! 

2) Dont be alarmed when I say this – dish soap may be your best friend when it comes to making your own fly fumigator! It acts as an emulsifier which keeps the water and oils mixed together to prevent you having to mix throughout spraying.

3) Add white vinegar or apple cider vinegar (depends on how you are with the smell) to give your horses coat a beautiful sheen. Two birds, one spray bottle. 

4) If your making you own recipe use a very very diluted mixture first. You can always add more oil. 

5) When using a new fly spray, manufactured, natural or D.I.Y don’t just cover your horse head to toes straight off. Do a patch test just incase of any reactions. 

I hope this helps! 

Send in your recipes! 

Catch ya laters,

Eloiseđź’•


Riders wobbles

We’ve all been there. Too scared to get on your own horse, to the point you think up the most ridiculous excuses to not get on them. Sometimes it’s because your four legged friend has thrown their teddies out of the pram because trotting in an outline is just too much or because there’s just something about your riding you just cannot correct. 

Everyone’s had what I call a “wobble” and people who say they haven’t are lying.

It’s nothing to be embarrassed about because at the end of the day you’re sitting on a living animal which can often be scared to death by a leaf being too crispy under foot. 

Three years ago I got my first horse. Millie, who was six at the time, was very green. Once she got comfortable she knew how to push buttons and knew where mine and my mums weaknesses were. Shortly after she started running backwards, tossing her head and pulling the reins right out of our hands. No big deal, we worked her harder. 

Then the bucking, paddling and bunny hopping started. Riding lessons seemed to be more focus on teaching me to sit to her tantrums than on making her work properly. Riding Millie mostly consisted of tears, arguments and a sandy bottom from when I ended up on the floor. With this Millie made a bit of a name for herself at the yard. 

After a lesson in which she floored me four times in twenty minutes, each time upping her game, we turned her away for the summer as she was too dangerous for me to ride. As soon as September hit we dropped her off in Leeds to “boot camp” with Richard Barton, on our way to a family holiday in Scotland. 

Within two days Richard was jumping her. That’s when the wobbles really set in. I. Wasn’t. Good. Enough. I’m not strong enough, experienced enough. She deserves better. 

After two weeks Millie returned home and I rode her. Practising everything I was told to. And if it wasn’t perfect I got so angry with myself and took it out on Millie. “All of this is my fault” “Millie was only like this because I’m not riding her properly” was all I could think when I was on her. 

But I never gave up on her. I just couldn’t. If I gave her up I would give up riding altogether.

Now we’ve dipped our toes into jumping and she loves it. We can canter out on hacks and she’s a different horse. But I STILL get wobbles. 

When I rode a different horse for work I would spend the whole time tacking up repeating “This horse is not Millie” over and over in my head. And sometimes even have to do it now. 

Millie has so much power in her back end and canter for her is all or nothing making it incredibly difficult to sit to. Four weeks ago I jarred my back cantering her and it took me almost two weeks to get back on her again. People thought I was stupid because of how far we have come and a silly little thing like that would set me back but once it’s in your head, it sticks.

And it’s natural, completely and utterly natural to sometimes be so tense whilst riding that your whole body aches when you dismount. It’s natural to make excuses to not ride today and put it off and off and off. 

But you’ve got to celebrate the little victories. You rode your horse past that scary looking tree today? GO YOU. You walked your horse around the school after you said you weren’t going to ride at all today? GO YOU. You sat on your horse for the first time in a while today? YES GET IN THERE!! GO YOU! 

From my experiences, riding wobbles are formed when we look at the negatives. For example, your horse lost it because a bird flew out in front of you but (s)he also stood perfectly for cars and a tractor. Or, that was a really shitty transition BUT (s)he was genuinely listening to what you were asking of them. 

If you’re currently having a wobble, take your time, it will come but don’t keep it to yourself. Talk to someone you trust and ask for help. Be patient and take baby steps. 

Trust me, you’ll never look back! 

Catch ya laters,

Eloiseđź’•

Alright, I’ll admit it I’m hoarder 

Friends and family who have seen my room will know it’s a total bomb site. The only place where you can see the floor is there the door swings open and closed. 

You have to climb over things to get into my bed and my curtains haven’t been drawn in months because it’s just too much hassle to lean over the old unused fish tank….. Actually make that years. 

My room is full of pointless stuff from my childhood; clothes, boxes of bouncy balls and teddy bears… Thousands and thousands of teddy bears. 

I’ve been trying to sort my room out since my teenage years but the thought of being up to my eyeballs in pointless crap is terribly daunting. 

My tomorrow is the day. I’m ready, after all these years, to be ruthless and have a proper bedroom. 

My plan is to spend tomorrow bagging up EVERYTHING in my room. And spending the next couple of weeks sorting through a few bags a night and gradually popping things back in to my empty room as I go. I also might redecorate while my room it’s empty. I’m so excited to have a proper room for the first time in what seems like forever. A place of my own where I can do college work and just chill out. 

Have you got any tips for me when it comes to sorting out tons of stuff? 

Or even any decorating tips? 

Catch ya laterz 

Eloiseđź’•

Never work with children or animals

Never work with children or animals, they say. Well I work with horses, some that stand 17h high or more that act like children. Toddlers to be precise, toddlers three times the size of me who don’t quite realise the damage they can do. Admittedly, there are some horses who are aware of damage they could do and know how to use it.

When I tell people I work with horses and intend to do so for as long as my body will let me I receive a look. A look of confusion and pitty followered by a sigh and the words “but horses can kill you” and if I’m lucky that’s followed by a story of a friend of a friend of a friends cousins girlfriends grandma who was kicked in the head and died instantly. 

As though I don’t know all this already.

That’s why I wear personal protective gear. 

But people die in cars, at the hands of other people or simply walking across the street. People died from choking, eating to much or just being in the wrong place at the wrong time. 

It’d be looked at funny if I replied with “oh no don’t eat that you just might choke”

Horses are loving (most of the time) and can be total dumbasses, they’re funny and they don’t need to be feared they need to be respected. Respect the power and strength a horses has, don’t fear it. 

What do you think about working with horses? 

Do you have a dangerous job people try and sway you from? 

Catch ya laters,

Eloiseđź’•

it won’t allow the “_”

Hey everyone, since I’ll be soon to start vlogging I thought a little blog here would make the perfect duo.

Editing videos has proven to be a laboursome task even for my computer wizz boyfriend. 

My YouTube channel, twitter and Instagram name is eloisedey_x but WordPress wouldn’t allow the “_” so I just had to make do. 

On here, I’ll be writing almost using this as a sort of diary. Writing about things from my make up & outfits to my apprentiship and my horses. 

Catch ya laters,

Eloise đź’•